How to Reach Your Financial Goals 10x Faster by Loving the Process, Not Chasing the Outcome

 

 

Welcome back to the Money Confidence Blog — your home for grounded, integrity-led financial coaching for women and business owners who want to build true financial peace.

Today, I’m breaking down one of the most transformational concepts in personal finance:

You reach your financial goals 10x faster when you stop chasing them — and start enjoying the process of becoming the person who achieves them.

Most people think the formula is:
“Once I hit X goal, I’ll finally be happy.”
But that mindset actually delays the very thing you want.

Happiness doesn’t happen after the goal.
Confidence doesn’t happen after the income.
Peace doesn’t happen after the debt is paid off.

It happens in the now — in how you show up, make decisions, and move through your daily life.

 

 

Stop With The “Chasing Energy” - It's Slowing You Down

When you’re constantly focused on the end result — the income, the savings, the debt payoff, the business milestone — you stop being present.
You stop enjoying your life.

That creates pressure, scarcity, and misalignment.

And ironically, those states are what slow down your progress.

I used to fall into this trap myself. As a full-time middle school teacher growing my coaching business, I found myself thinking:

“I’ll be happy once I can finally quit and work for myself.”

But while I was focused on the destination, I missed the power of the present moment — the grind, the growth, the character-building, the integrity, and the small daily wins.

When you bring your power back to the present, everything accelerates.

 

 

Actually Enjoy the Grind & Process Of Achieving Your FInancial Goals

You reach your goals faster when:

✔ You feel whole right now

Not once the number changes.
Not once the job changes.
Not once your bank account hits a certain number.
Wholeness is an internal state.

✔ You let yourself love the grind

Waking up early.
Showing up for your commitments.
Cleaning baby bottles, pump parts, & organizing/cleaning up the kitchen at 9:00 PM after a 8 hour workday as a new mom.
That is the phase that shapes your confidence.

✔ You stop resisting the reality of being human

The emotions.
The hard days.
The moments where life tests your mindset.
It’s all part of your evolution - & it's freaking fire 🔥

✔ You shift from “I’ll be happy when…” to “I’m proud of who I am today.”

That is the energetic shift that collapses timelines.

 

 

Understand That Your Heart/Soul Desire Energy Is the Accelerator

Strategy matters — budgeting, organizing, paying off debt, knowing your numbers.
But it’s energy that determines how fast it all works.

When your energy is aligned, grounded, and rooted in integrity:

You stop overspending out of emotion

You stop self-sabotaging your goals

You stop waiting for “future you” to feel good

You start showing up powerfully right now

This is how you 10x your success rate — sustainably.

 

 

 

Real-Life Proof: How I Navigated $7,000 in Car Expenses Calmly

In the last six weeks, my family had nearly $7,000 in unexpected car repairs.

Old me would have froze in fear
Regulated me — present me — saw it as an invitation to rise:

💛 To trust myself
💛 To move money with integrity
💛 To practice emotional regulation
💛 To honor the reality of life without collapsing under it

This is the energetic stability that accelerates your goals.

 


 Here’s the path:

  1. Get grounded in the now

  2. Stop outsourcing your peace to the future

  3. Allow yourself to love the daily process

  4. Pair money strategy with energetic alignment

  5. Get support — a coach, a community, a container to grow & thrive

This is the work we do inside every Money Confidence offer.
This is the foundation of the podcast, my coaching, and my mission.

 

 

 

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